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Reality check

Poster Message:
Recruitment is more or less fake on many levels. Actives and pnms are all on their A game. They are trying to impress each other and want you to want them. They avoid the taboo subjects, dress a certain way, and take extra time on hair and makeup in order to impress. As far as actives go if they don't like you they aren't going to show it because it would be impolite. Towards the end of the process it will become more real and you will be able to see what the house is really all about. If you are genuine during recruitment you will find your home. If you are putting on an act you may end up unhappy. Be yourself and it should all work out.