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Poster Name:
confusedfrosh

<strong>Subject:</strong><br />Where do I fit?<br /><br /> Poster Message:
I know that this is not reddit where I can ask such posts, but I saw a couple of other posts where other guys asked the same question and I was interested in seeing if anyone had any advice or starting frats I can look for during rush (given night event invites start early). I went a preppy/fratty private school growing up but do not consider myself preppy or fratty at all. I am looking for more a chill brohood but would like to still be able to mix consistently with sororities. Big thing for me is, I have significant campus involvements, part time internship, volunteering etc, and will continue to have these throughout my time at Cornell. So I would like to join a frat where there are other bros who do not have the house as their top commitment or activity but more so as a space where I have a good group of friends and can chill. Also had some bad hazing in high school so would like to avoid that if possible. Lmk your thoughts.