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Poster Name:
pledgemaster

Poster Message:
Not the case at all. Second contacts generally just mean you are being seriously considered. Know quite a few guys who were dirty rushed and got 2nd contacts at top through upper mid houses in my time at all. Just because you get a second contact does not mean you have the bid. It means you will 100% be getting invites to the night events at that point if you had not before and you will get the chance to interact with bros in a more intimate setting as opposed to zoom. Big one that has dinged guys after 2nd contacts at least in my frat is drinking at night events. Yeah we wanna get messed up and have fun but if you can't control yourself and do or say something that is messed up, we will think about how if that happens in the future if you become a brother and that happens. Have fun but know your limits and don't try to impress anyone if you think you can't handle it. Every house inevitably has cuts after 2nd contacts. Generally at least 40-60% of dudes will get cut depending on the house. The bar keeps getting higher for each phase. Maybe only a 60% bar is needed for 1st contact, 70% for 2nd, and 80% for a bid. Brothers argue for and against kids and if you piss off a brother by saying something messed up, he will bring that up in delibs and it will hurt you if it sways enough guys. Just be chill and cool.