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Poster Name:
sleepless

<strong>Subject:</strong><br />sorority is superficial. period<br /><br /> Poster Message:
I'm a graduating senior in a mid tier house. I used to be really hyped about greek life my freshman year but I have been deactivated since junior spring. I really don't like how people gaslight freshman by constantly talking about "sense of community" and "sisterhood". Admit it this world is shallow. We are all fun seeking young adults and unfortunately we are insecure. The so called community is more like a clout. Every girl wanted to get into core 4. Every girl wanted to be attractive and tbh guys care about attractiveness more than you think. I did have plenty of fun and met more new people, but I actually have met more amazing people in my clubs, my major(a small humanity major) and classes. I see my friends in sorority more as a social group, and most of my really close friends who are not even in greek life. In retrospect I still don't regret rushing bc otherwise i wouldn't be able to go out as much. Based on my observation, girls join sorority for fun, insta photos, clout, meet guys etc. My sorority is considered an "alternative" one and we have a reputation of being diverse and valuing personalities over other shallow metrics. This is what appealed to me in the first place. But I later found out a lot of the "alternative girls" are actually very insecure about their body type and they turn this insecurity into bullying skinny girls even some geed girls. I also don't think people from different backgrounds, specifically socio economic classes get along as people would imagine. Also the insta photos are fake. people who act like sisters in the photo are not always friends with each other. Anyway this late night post is very disorganized, and as a senior I'm just reflecting on my 4 yrs