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Poster Name:
honest

Poster Message:
brutal truth - you will never find a house where everyone loves each other or everyone is all friends. it is impossible to put 30+ women into a house together and expect all of the personalities to work together or have everyone share the same interests. that being said, it is possible to find lifetime friends. one huge reason I have seen people drop is that they did not have an accurate idea/expectation of sororities before going in. I knew the realities before joining (my sister was in one) and I decided to take the opportunity to build community and leadership anyway. If you have realistic expectations going in and find an organization whose VALUES you connect with, even if you don't immediately click with the people during recruitment, that is what matters. Also keep in mind, recruitment does not feature all members and it is designed to put on the best front, not the most realistic one. trust your gut, trust people who keep it real with you, and focus on values.