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Same thing happened to me. Might even be the same chapter. Don’t drop. Give it time. There are awesome girls in every house and if you’re unable to find girls at your house to be friends with it’s unlikely you’ll find all that many friends at another house. As freshman year goes on you’ll make more friends I’m certain. My advice: hangout with the boys they hangout with. Go to their frats parties and try to get invites to their date parties. Invite those boys to your date party. This is a SUPER easy way to get to know these girls better (although it does seem kinda backwards.) Also LIVE IN THE HOUSE sophomore year. In opposition to someone else’s advice above, I wouldn’t make a big deal about how you’ve been left out thus far to these girls. Critiquing them isn’t going to be a good way to make them your friends. These girls are falling into cliques because it’s comfortable for them. You can’t totally blame them for that. Host a pregame for an event. Be bubbly and nice and try to talk to them. Dropping and rushing as a sophomore isn’t the worst thing but the grass isn’t always greener on the other side. Being a sophomore in a new pc brings an incredible amount of difficulty as well. Sophomores are typically left out of a lot of things and have a hard time finding their place. Again, hang out with the boys they hangout with and I promise you’ll start having lots of opportunities to get to know them better.