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For any PNMs reading this — because I know I was when I was a high school senior — here’s what I didn’t know when I was in your position. Top house doesn’t mean best house. Top just means hard to get into. Top just means LESS SPOTS available to get in because their members & alumni are pulling for so many girls Each house gets a number of girls they HAVE to cut during recruitment. The bigger the cuts the harder it is to get in. Top houses might have to cut 75% of the girls before they even meet them. They don’t have as many spots to fill, so it ends up being girls they already know or girls with connection or legacy. This makes the exclusive/hard to get into rep continue year after year. Girls in these houses already know each other really well from high school, camp, or somewhere else. If you are not from one of these groups, you might have a harder time fitting in. It can be done, but it is really hard. For example, If you move from OOS to a high school where you don’t know anyone your senior year and everyone else has been friends since elementary school, it’s gonna be harder to fit in. It can be done, but it’s harder. This is how recruitment is. If you don’t have several girls fighting for you in a house, it is really hard to get asked back. If a top house can only invite back 50 girls and a lower house can invite back 100 then you have more of a chance of being 1 of 50 if you know a bunch of girls. If your OOS they’re not going to waste one of their 50 spots on someone no one knows. It would be easier to be 1 of 100 because there are more available spots. A random OOS outstanding PNM has slim chances of getting a spot. Top doesn’t mean friendliest or happiest or best sisterhood. It just means hardest to get into. In fact like the high school example, you’ll probably fit in better with other people who haven’t known each other forever and who have also recently moved to Louisiana. The top houses don’t have very many OOS girls. The mid houses have more OOS. You should go where you feel comfortable. Harder to get into doesn’t = better. It’s math. Because if you’re in state you prob went to high school with a lot of girls in the top houses so they help get you in — connections. What I learned the hard way is you need connections (which you’ll hear over and over again on GR) and if you don’t have them then you probably don’t really want to be in that sorority because so many of the girls already know each other. Trust me it is HARD to break in to groups of girls that already have a history from high school or camp or whatever. If you have connections, then you need to decide do you really truly want your connections to be sisters? Do you feel like your best self around them? Doyou really want HS 2.0? There are some girls w/no connections, and yes some no connection girls make friends, but that hasn’t been my experience. If I could give any advice it would be the mid houses have the best sisterhoods and are not cliquey. OOS girls if you don’