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OU Parent-IA

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I have been reading all this bickering on this site and think it is totally crazy. Why? Why can’t these girls be judged on their accomplishments? I know several girls that had GPAs over 4.0, had outstanding rec letters and will be part of other organizations on the OU campus this fall and they were cut by PHI PI, Theta, Kappa and TRI-Delta, while other girls who were not as strong academically or otherwise and they were not cut because of their looks. (My daughter should have been a blond, unfortunately she is not). It makes me disgusted with this whole process. From an outsider looking it is about who you know and not your accomplishments. How can they judge if someone is a good match based on a 10 minute conversation where the girls are nervous? You have to embrace diversity and I really don't see that happening with the process that is being used by the above mentioned houses to move girls to the next round. They seem to be most comfortable with girls that appear to be just like them. Where is the diversity and the that just because someone do act or look in the same manner they may not be a fit. They may be shy or introvert but it doesn’t mean they would not be a good fit. Before someone states that I’m in one these houses I’m not I am a parent just trying to figure this whole process out and understand why girls that have excellent grades and leadership qualities were cut by all of the above houses because they may have been a little nervous. This process is i