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not trying to be rude

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But this has been discussed a lot. Just go through the discussions and you'll find your answer. Basically, don't be shy, get connections, recs, meet people, stuff like that. Its possible you just have to go out and get recs and meet others, but for more detailed answers just go onto other discussions.