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So many times girls get bids to houses that "weren't their favorites" and then wind up LOVING that house - they later can't even imagine being in the "other" house they thought they wanted. That's what we mean by 'trust the process.' Take advantage of every round, go to every party, keep an open mind and if you get a bid, show up happy. It is a privilege to get a bid and be part of a sisterhood. And if you maximize every round and rank both houses, you will get a bid. Don't be the girl who drops out mid-way because "I don't like the houses I have left." Give it a chance. Re-rushing as a sophomore is rarely successful - might be for a few girls, but that's not the norm. And one more thing - if you get a bid to a house you're unsure about, GIVE IT TIME!! Bonding and fitting in does not happen overnight, despite what it seems like some girls think. AND also - if you can't find friends in a house with hundreds of girls, then you simply aren't trying.