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reality

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Some hard messages here, but one thing that is on target is that OOS, usually OOR, girls are sometimes surprised to not make a "top tier" house when they would have made that level of house at their own state university, etc. The "lower tier" houses here are fantastic (and getting even stronger), so I think most girls who land there are happy....but I have known girls (and their moms) who were really upset that they that were cut from top or mid-tier houses simply because they didn't know someone. So from that standpoint, that can be a tough landing if you were a super-star back home and didn't realize how key connections are. The only advice I have for the OP is to be aware of this and the overall culture of OM, then decide what works for her. Just because she knows girls who left doesn't mean she won't like it, but these are good questions to ask.