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Living in a sorority home is like living with any group of people. It takes time to recognize the nuances of living together with a group of otherwise unrelated women. In my house it was a strain at first having EVERY new live-in member say "good morning!" as they first passed me in the halls. I wasn't even dressed for the day yet, always felt grumpy early and thus didn't ever feel like responding. They gradually learned I was not being rude by not immediately responding, and would wait to say hello if they saw me later in the day. It's kindness back-and-forth one must learn and apply during any new housing situation. Forced cheerfulness and constant closeness can wear on people, too. So relax, and you may enjoy your sisters in a new light. After you graduate, there will likely be women from your sorority of initiation wherever you hang your shingle. Whether in an alumnae chapter or at a new job, there surely might be TRUE SISTERS waiting out there in your future.