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I didn't feel "at home" really until mid-way through my sophomore year when I took a little. My big was / is completely disinterested in me and all though I have a group of friends some of my closer ones are all in different houses. However, - Rush workshops really helped me get to know a lot of my sisters better and we all saw each other at our best and worst... then having a new pledge class to get to know really made me feel so much better about my house and my sisters. When I took a little I made a promise to be a better big then the one I had and have really gotten a lot out of being there for her and some of her pledge sisters. I sometimes wish they were my pledge class!! I think above poster is kind of correct- you may never feel truly at home- a lot of it is kind of fake because for one thing the chapters are just way too large!!! There is no way you are going to like and bond with everyone in your pledge class let alone your entire sorority. We definitely need more chapters here- but also I think I have come to see that being in a sorority is a whole lot bigger than feeling at home- it is being involved, having a core group of friends that you can laugh and cry with and having a so called "self identity"- I am an XYZ... it makes college easier.