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Poster Name:
Truthfully

Poster Message:
Honestly, it's not you. For the most part, there are hundreds of women that could be a good fit for our house. It's just a numbers game. With 1600+ pnms, we can't get to know everyone well. It's a quick first impression. If you only have 4 or 5 members ranking you, and another pnm only has 4 or 5 members ranking them, not being invited back is just luck. It does not mean that all of our members discussed you and decided you weren't a fit. It just means that a cut had to be made and the coin toss went the other way. Focus on the houses you have left.