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Heyyyyyp

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I rushed with 10 of my friends from first semester and noticed 3 (maybe 3.5 different cases of girls slipping through the cracks) PNM #1: didn’t actually slip through the cracks. Just was way too closed minded. This girl had all of us losing our minds before rush, telling us these “secrets” about rush, talking about how she couldn’t wait for 200 sisters, saying sorority life was definitely for her... girl we just rly needed to study for finals please chill. This girl also only saw herself in houses like chi o or pi phi, and while those are great houses we all knew they weren’t her. Would later complain about being dropped even though she still had great houses. Finally dropped herself because her attitude was so bad. PNM #2: just wasn’t as great of a conversationalist as she thought she was. She still was closed minded, not as much as the one before, but she later dropped before pref round. In reality all my friends knew she just did not make a good first impression, even though she’s really great. Rush you have to be able to be your best you for 5 different girls within 30 minutes and that’s hard for some people. PNM #3: there was no reason really. Just ended up being dropped from most houses early on. Nothing anyone could pin point. BUT, keep in mind for all of these girls, they still had houses, they just dropped because they weren’t houses they liked/saw themselves in. Which is fine if you gave it a shot and genuinely don’t see yourself there, but you’re not without options. PNM #3.5: rushed, got a house, wasn’t their first choice after pref. I had multiple friends have this and 3 of them came home from bid night crying. However, looking back every single one of them say they are so happy they ended up in their house and could not see them in the other, trust the girls in each chapter!! They know where you belong!!! Like I said above, you have to make the best first impression in 20 minutes. This means looking your best and being bubbly, outgoing, nice, talkative (but also a good listener) and friendly!!! Don’t try to be someone you aren’t because that won’t work out, but be yourself. And even if you’re so freaking tired you have to suck it up. All the houses that I didn’t give as much effort and was exhausted at I was immediately cut. Besides that, I had a good rush and ended up in a good house. You just need to be the best version of you for 30 minutes.