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Poster Name:
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Poster Message:
This is not about "political correctness." The nuance you are not understanding is that you (and many PNM's) use some really flawed sense of status to measure "fit." If your measure of fit is what you think is the "popular" crowd you are confusing this with high school. What everyone on here has been telling you, is that once the novelty wears off, your chapter is like your family. And guess what. A major portion of your life transcends that family. No one asks what sorority you are in before they will talk and interact with you. Academics, sports, other activities OUTSIDE of your house exist and not one of those things is dependent on the letters you wear. Yes, you are committed to your chapter and sisters, and some of them will be your sisters for life. Greek life can be amazing. But the reality is that your sorority is not WHO you are. You will have close friends, classmates and colleagues who are Greek, and non-greek. That is the real world. If you didn't think you would be happy in a chapter, and dropped before pref, whatever. But I doubt we would be having this convo if you had gotten invites to house that YOU perceived were top houses. It is disingenuous to try to frame it any other way. So yes, we are sorry for you that it did not work out the way you assumed it would. If you decide to do this next year, perhaps you should reconsider your assumptions.