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Poster Name:
well

Poster Message:
In my experience, I know girls in every chapter who would be considered the "total package." People join different houses for different reasons, the values of the house, a girl they met during the second round they really connected with, familial history, national reps, local reps, whatever that may be. But like many on this thread are saying, what other people on campus think about your house is nothing compared to YOUR opinion of your house. Find the house you feel truly at home at, where you imagine yourself on your best days and your worst days, through the highs and lows, and hope you get a bid there. And if you get a bid elsewhere, give the house a real chance- go to lunches and socials and sisterhood events…you may just find something there you didn't see during the rush parties. But regardless, be happy you got a bid, got sisters, and don't care so much about what other people think. Love your letters, wear them proudly, and wear them well.