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Yes, this happens to almost every. single. PNM who rushes. You're supposed to get along and click with the actives. That's how they make you love their house. That's how rushing works. They want EVERYONE to love them, not just the girls they want to invite back. Let me tell you something, I ended up in a house where I didn't feel like I had 1 amazing conversation all week. All the conversations were mediocre and boring to the amazing connections I felt I made in other houses. I had a good rush. I was invited back to most of the houses I wanted, and some I didn't want. After pref, I ended up in my second choice. I LOVE my house. I didn't love it during rush. But think about it this way, combine all the time you spend in the house and all the girls you talked to, and it's miniscule. You talk to probably no more than a dozen different girls in a single house over the course of the week, and you spend less than 3 hours there TOTAL. That's not always enough time to fall in love. Some people do, and that's great. But there are 200 other girls in the house you haven't met, plus your whole pledge class who will be the ones you spend most of your time with! I ended up in a house I only "sorta liked" during rush. But I'm in love with it now. And my story is not unique. It happens to so so so many people. It's okay to not fall in love with your house during rush.