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I don't go to UM but I was checking out greek life for my little brother transferring, I'm in a sorority and basically when you join a sorority/fraternity you are in it for life no matter the school you go to/if you graduate. So if you transfer schools and that school has your chapter that chapter has to allow you membership because you are a member of their fraternity/sorority. They have no choice, even if you don't fit in with their chapter's "personality". I've seen this happen in my chapter, we've received some transfers that were awesome and fit in well with our top tier PCs and then we've had some transfers that haven't fit in well.. our chapter is very close knit and outgoing, these girls were shy and basically had no chance at really integrating into the chapter well. You should do research on the chapter your transferring into and see what they're like, just to know what you're getting yourself into! It's hard to find info about that online that's actually true so I would reach out to someone you know who goes to that school. I've seen some girls who transferred from a top tier chapter in the south and into a bottom tier chapter at my school and they refused to be an active member of the chapter. It is what it is.