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friendless

<strong>Subject:</strong><br />I have no friends in my sorority.. Do I drop?<br /><br /> Poster Message:
I'm a member of a sorority on campus (I won't say names) that is supposed to have a "variety" of girls, but in actuality is very cliquish. This is my second year in said sorority, and I feel like I have absolutely no one. My parents pay dues, and I try to involve myself by signing up for things in the sorority, but I feel incredibly lonely. I almost feel like the friends I'm "paying for" don't even want me, so who does? I'm trying to figure out whether I should drop my sorority or keep pushing through it, but I feel like everyone's got their cliques and it's just extremely hard for me. I'm super embarrassed even writing this post because I don't want to be THAT girl who pays money to be in a sorority and then complain about it. Should I drop it? Should I stay in? How am I supposed to make friends with girls who have already picked out their friends? I'm tearing my hair out because I love my sorority and the philanthropy and what it stands for, but I genuinely feel like everyone in it hates me. Advice?