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Poster Name:
harsh

Poster Message:
What are harsh cuts? Do you mean that houses that you love are going to end up not inviting you back? Yes, that is going to happen. Is that harsh? If you understand the truth, that it is just a numbers game and that each house can only invite back a certain number, and that it doesn't mean they didn't like you, it doesn't mean that the women you connected with didn't also feel a connection with you, and that just because you didn't make the algorithm's required cut-off it doesn't mean you have been judged to be unworthy or less than or inadequate, then NO the cuts are not harsh, they are just based on numbers. There are members that get just as upset as the pnm's when their very favorite girls don't return; they are baffled, disappointed, sad, and angry at their chapter. Focus instead that houses WANT you and that there are great women in that house. You don't know what you don't know so give those houses a chance.