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Personal experience

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Hi, I hope this helps please take it with a grain of salt. This is just my experience joining a chapter as a legacy. When I rushed I joined my family’s legacy chapter, even though I connected way more with other girls in the other chapter I preferred, I wanted to join this one because of my family and honestly the reputation of the sorority. I hated my time, I felt like I was an outcast and that i didn’t have any friends. I didn’t connect with the girls as I did in the other chapter I had preferred, and felt I made a huge mistake. Even though I eventually found my group in this sorority I still really regret not following my gut and trying to “please” my family. Don’t let the legacy thing dictate which chapter you choose, if you connect with different girls and feel at home there go with those chapters. When I expressed this to my mom and sisters they were mad that I didn’t follow my instinct and chose based off what “I thought was the right thing to do and not the best thing to do.” They wanted to see me happy and not miserable. Make that choice for yourself I’m not saying you’d be miserable in one over the other but don’t sweat the legacy thing. A lot of chapters will typically have the chapter legacy talking to the best people in order to recruit them in. Not saying that is adpi but from my experience in my chapter I know it exists. All 3 of those chapters you have listed are really similar in tier and ranking, one is not better than the other. Just trust your gut and go with the two that you feel yourself with. Not someone who you’re trying to be. Hope that helps alittle bit, no hate on any of those chapters.