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Poster Name:
chicken

Poster Message:
I've been reading these posts and finally decided to chime in here and recruitment was incomprehensible to me. I had no knowledge and truly just winged it! I pref'd xo and pi phi and picked pi phi. Pi Phi was my top pik from day one and I honestly wasn't sure how the process would work for me but oddly it did. I loved a phi, sk, xo, theta and ddd. I truly met wonderful ladies at all the houses and I know for me I could have been happy at any of the 5-6 houses I just mentioned. I still don't get how the houses didn't seem to cut equally after the first event? I understand the math discussed in another thread but it all honestly seems quite strange to me to have such differences in house size drive a process and cause so many tears. The scene back at the dorm was consistently horrific on my floor as it was non stop tears from day 1 and the pain was real. Many hear seem to believe that these crying pnms brought this pain on themselves because they were closed minded about house choice. There was certainly some of this but not as much as some people seem to think. Not sure things should be this hard or painful. Just my 2 cents from someone who is very very happy!