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Poster Name:
Motivational

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Could not agree more. It is difficult to imagine starting off at a new school and already unhappy that you either did not get a bid to a sorority or you got one to a group you had not wanted or even thought about. We let things that we read on sites like this control our idea of what we want and then many of us find out that there are other sides to the sorority story. I had recs to most all the sororities and many to my legacy group. One of those I did not have a rec to was the one I eventually pledged after I got dropped after the second party to my moms sorority. She got on the phone and called another sorority sister who knew a girl in my sorority and got me a rec that day in case they kept me. I went from thinking how sad it was that some girls were going to particular groups to hoping I had an invitation to those! I had been a head cheerleader, NHS officer, beauty pageant winner and honors graduate in high school and I was hurt at how I was dropped. You know what? You DO pick yourself up and when you do, you find out that there are other really great groups to chose from, not just those that are pushed as being the only good ones. I also knew girls who got nothing and they are so involved in campus activities. Nothing can wipe away the hurt from not being wanted, it just occurs due to numbers. So, if you are unhappy with your group, think of those who would have loved to have a bid. I love my sorority now and I have great friends in all the groups.