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Poster Name:
Truth

Poster Message:
There are two important things for you to know. First: During recruitment, sororities meet way more girls that would fit in perfectly than they have room to give bids to. Therefore, they cut perfectly wonderful girls. Every sorority at AU cuts girls. Girls that are amazing and wonderful. But that is their choice. You may think they made the wrong choice when they cut you. But they decided that they wanted someone else MORE than you. They didn't make the wrong choice at all and if you quit and go through recruitment next year, they'll make the same choice again. Second: You got a bid and you have two choices of what to do with it. You can sit and mope and moan about it not being a bid to the right sorority. You can refuse to participate fully and wait around for the girls to make you feel better. You can let them know that you feel like you're better than they are. And eventually drop out. Or you can go over there every day and meet new girls. You can volunteer for everything. You can ask girls to meet you for coffee and get to know them as individuals. You can throw yourself into it with an open heart and expect wonderful things. And you will stay, be initiated, and find your lifelong best friends. If you're not "clicking" with the girls in your sorority, it's because you're not trying. Every sorority has lots of great girls. Not every girl will be your best friend, but there will be lots who will. It's up to you. I think you have a poor attitude. But you can change it.