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Well is it your #1 choice or bust? Or are you interested in Greek life in general and are okay "settling" for your second choice (if applicable) for starters, if you didn't get a bid it's likely because actives did not see you as a fit in their chapter for whatever reason or you didn't make it out to enough events. However there is so much turnover in Greek life that you have nothing to lose to rush again. Yes some, if not most, people will remember you but if you're truly a chill dude and make it to the events you should get a bid. Your involvement in school isn't a big deal. I'd also rush one more frat in case you get denied a bid. Maybe try the frat you got a bid from again and see if you vibe with the new PC. I honestly feel like you had doubts and didn't give it a chance because you still longed for your #1 and didn't give it time. One week is too short to really get to know an entire chapter. And if they bidded you originally they obviously feel you're more quality as opposed to the other frat Fall tends to be more selective because so many people come out. But the fall rush experience is by far the best and it's not even close. Tldr; rush in fall. Rush your top 2 choices. Decide after 2 weeks