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So, I may be wrong on this for all chapters, but you can be recommended by a current member - from any school. Now, if they're in the chapter here, their opinion carries more weight, as they know who would potentially be a great fit. That doesn't mean that other letters of rec are useless. If you can get one well written, deep letter for each chapter that really shows that the woman recommending you knows you well and believes you're a fit - you've struck gold. Letters of rec are in no way a guarantee of a bid, or being asked back for that matter. AND I completely agree: go where you feel comfortable. A chapter that feels like home is what you're looking for. Because for you time in college, it will serve as your home. I felt this was for a few houses and ended up only having 1 I felt comfortable in by Prefs. So, ranking that night was really easy! (PS: DO NOT SUICIDE BID, IT HURTS YOUR CHANCES!!!) Trust your gut, ignore tent talk and what people tell you, and follow your heart. That's how to find your true sorority home!