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Poster Name:
mc22

Poster Message:
I didn't put much value in the "tiers". I wish more girls did the same. I heard so many girls focusing on a rank and not how they felt at a house or finding girls like them...not having good conversations and giving each house a chance...some focused on the superficial instead of finding girls like them and a sisterhood. It made me sad to see so many girls crying and dropping out because someone made them think that if they didn't get a certain house that there was something wrong with them. I think there is a house for everyone and every house has something to offer. I had a fairly full schedule the first day of different "tiers" and after it was all done, I chose Kappa because that is the one house where I felt like the girls were real and genuine and had a diversity of interests and held the same values as me, I loved their philanthropy, and it's where I just felt like I was home. For me, I wasn't interested in going to a house that was considered a certain rank on this site just to impress someone else with my letters because they based worth on letters. It's not about them...it's about me and my sisters for life. I wish more girls would see that. It was a hard week and I had to do a lot of soul searching to decide, but in the end I don't think there is a wrong house. I hope the girls that dropped will come back with a different perspective and trust the process and try again though.