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No, sororities are not all talking to each other during rush and are not in cahoots about who is going back where! They focus solely on their own chapters. Cuts after the first round are different for every house. Like the second comment says, most houses will invite you to round 2 as long as you held a conversation, seemed interested and fun, and dressed nicely. MOST houses, not all. Zeta and adpi and just the top tier in general get to be more choosey because they know they'll basically get any pnms they want back for the next round. To answer the first part, yes a girl can be dropped by every single house during any round. It's rare but it can happen; sometimes great girls get overlooked and fall through the cracks, but most of the time that I've seen this happen it's been to girls who were having a negative experience with rush. It just wasn't for them, they weren't happy to be there, and it showed. So it isn't something I would stress too much about. And yes, the same goes the other way; if a pnm is extremely desirable then she will technically have her pick of the houses because all of them will invite her back so she will only go back to the ones she wants to. This is the only scenario where it truly is mutual selection, and it's VERY rare. And yes, it is very likely that after round 1 you could go to 9 houses while your friend goes to 12. Lots of girls do not get the maximum amount of houses possible back for each round. Don't freak out if it happens, it's totally normal. There was a girl in my pi chi group who only had 3 houses invite her back after round 1, but they all kept her all the way through pref and she got her first choice and loves it.