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Poster Name:
NoleGrad

Poster Message:
Honestly, you have to be realistic and decide whether being in a sorority is worth all of that money you spend. For me, it wasn't. I worked my ass off my freshman year trying to afford my dues. Working full time, plus school, and making time for your sorority...it just wasn't worth it. I was so stressed. Not to mention I missed out on TONS of sorority events because of my job. I quit my sorority after my freshman year. You know, the sad thing is, all of the friends I made during my time in my sorority, I lost most of them. i graduated last fall, and I don't talk to a single one of them any more. But you know what? I don't care because I had a GREAT time in college. I made some absolutely amazing and life long friends outside of being in my sorority and who have become like family. I had an amazing social life and I wouldn't trade it for the world. The friends I made after I left my sorority were there for me at my lowest, so the poster who said that her sisters were there for her and not her other friends after her life took a down turn...don't listen to her. Making it sound like you can't have good friends outside of your sorority. My "sisters" dropped me like a hot potato when I left. Sororities are fantastic, and one of my best friends to this day, was in a sorority herself, but they aren't for everyone. Don't stress about rushing. Your social life will NOT be dictated by not being able to afford dues. You can still have an AMAZING social life and not be in Greek Life.