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You're gonna be okay

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You'll be just fine! Yes, you will be released from some chapters but this is the way it goes for the majority of pnm's so you'll be in good company. But you will still have great options in recruitment even if you don't already know bunches of sorority members, every chapter here is good. Focus on the ones that invite you back and not on the ones that release you. The Philanthropy round invitation lists will have already been decided by the sororities over the summer based on pnm's registration materials and members' opinions of the pnm's they already know. You will watch the chapter videos and rank your choices, but rush started way before you set foot on campus so some of those chapters, including your faves, aren't going to be a choice for you. Wait and see who you get back and know where you will actually be rushing before you get too invested in any of the chapters. Keep in mind that the sororities do the choosing, not the pnm's so much, and they do not take pnm's ranks into consideration during their selection process. They don't ever see the pnm's ranks, they are choosing who they are interested in based on the best fit for their chapter. So your very favorites will release you, and your least favorites will keep coming back on your schedule. Pnm's don't drop chapters, they only rank them - a pnm's lowest ranked chapters only drop off her schedule if more sororities want to invite her back than she has room for in a round. Being dropped sure can sting but it really is not personal, it's all just a numbers game. Any discussions or rankings of pnm's in a chapter's selection process is actually positive and focused on pnm's good qualities, not about finding fault with anyone. The sororities are given the number of pnm's they can invite back each round, so a pnm not making a house's cutoff number has nothing to do with being judged as not worthy or being inferior to them, and doesn't mean they won't want to be friends with girls they have to cut. It is strictly all about numbers.