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I don't think that's an accurate statement. Axo follows the panhellenic rules extremely closely. That may have been a one time thing, and that girl probably didn't even mean to do it. Some actives literally think you're 100% guaranteed a bid but they don't know what the rush team knows. The rush team makes the ultimate decision im sure. Overall, that's a sucky situation and it shouldn't have happened, but I don't think your situation should represent the entire chapter.

This happened to me too. Was rushed harder by them than any other sorority, made to feel like I was a shoo-in and belonged there, carried until pref, and then dropped. Lucky they weren't my first pick or I would have been heartbroken

for misleading PNMs in order to make their return rates as high as possible. MANY PNMs get sucked by AXO actives and then are disappointed later on.

I'm in one of the other sororities you mentioned above, and I can't speak for everyone but I can speak for myself and many other girls who I know preffed our sorority and AXO. We all loved both sororities but in the end picked our own over AXO. We didn't get heart broken on bid day, because we liked our sorority a lot better

Hahahah what was the purpose of that comment above??? To put Axo down? I hope you liked the sorority you picked... If not I'd be worried.

Dropped AXO the night before pref
Preffed Tri Delt #1 and got it. Based on me and my friends, not a very accurate comment.

Sit down. The remark isn't to insult you. Simply stating that you were not everyone's first choice. You are very good house. There are other very good houses on campus. I think the point is that AXO tries to corner the market by bid promising and not every pnm is buying in because they like other houses just as much or more than you.

I think that pnms should learn what exactly bid promising is. There's a difference in saying "everyone that has met you this week just loves you and we hope that you feel at home here" from "you are guaranteed a spot here on bid day"
There's a huge difference in the two. Don't blame a sorority for bid promising when they might just be saying something in a different way.

"Everybody who has met you here this week just loves you and we hope you feel at home" is a VERY leading statement and EASILY misunderstood by a pnm. What does this statement imply exactly?

"Everybody who has met you here this week just loves you and we hope you feel at home" means that everybody who has met you here this week just loves you and we hope you feel at home. It does not mean, "You are guaranteed a bid on bid day."

I had a lot of fun at the KKG tea. I walked in to a bunch of girls smiling and greeting me with daquiris. The girls Made me feel right at home and they were so nice! Plus they had amazing food! I spent almost two hours there without even noticing!