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Poster Name:
well

Poster Message:
An incoming PNM from a high school near mine had met my friend (who is at miami in a dif chapter) over the summer at work. They became sort of friends, and would text occasionally. Eventually, my friend found out that the PNM had been badmouthing her in a BIG way to a friend they had in common-- just immature, unnecessary behavior. So, when rush came about, and they voted on this PNM, my friend voiced her opinion--this girl would not be a good sister, and her sorority sisters heard that, and didn't invite her back. There was no list, no secret dramatic process-- she just said what had happened, and her sisters listened because they care about her and the girls sounded like she would cause issues in their chapter. That's all. PNMs tend to think of rush as this mysterious process (and yeah, it kind of is) but it's all just a bunch of girls your age making a decision. There is no magic formula, we just decide if you would be a good fit or not. Is she friendly? Is she cute? Would we want to be friends with her? Is she smart? Does she care about school? Would we want to call her a sister? That's it.