So you have found the Sorority of your dreams and as the semester begins, you’re more than ready to start your pledging journey! Although it’s exciting, it also comes with many questions and a lot of nervousness. Here are some tips for making the best of your pledging experience.
Remember, you aren’t going through it alone! There is an entire class of ladies in the same boat as you. Take advantage of it and get to know them. They are the only other people who know what you are going through. They can be your support system. Bonding during this time may result in a lifelong friendship as well. Educate yourself.
Take the time to learn about the sorority. During the process, you will be introduced to some of the history and key values of the sorority, but that doesn’t mean you can’t do your own research. By learning more, you’ll feel more connected to the organization as a whole. Attend Mixers and Social Events
There is no better way to meet new people than at mixers. It also offers a break from the stresses of school and the changing lifestyle you are experience. Allow yourself to have fun, make friends and destress. Be yourself!
Don’t try to be something you aren’t just for other people to like you. It’s almost impossible to keep up that charade all the time. Allow people to get to know you for who you are. Being sincere and genuine is the best way to win people over. It’s better to be yourself than to be accepted for someone you aren’t. Don’t freak out over hazing.
There are so many horror stories that circulate about hazing. Don’t let it scare you away. Most sororities don’t partake in those types of hazing practices. If you aren’t comfortable with what you are being told to do, speak up. Don’t let others pressure you into doing anything you do not want to do. Stand your ground and let your voice be heard. Don’t participate in something just because everyone else is doing it. Make your own decisions. Have fun!
It’s easy to stress out during college, but remember that it is a once in a lifetime experience. Even if you return to college for another degree, nothing compares with your first college experience, and nothing will ever compare to the experiences you will have in your sorority. Don’t sweat the little things, and just enjoy the ride!
