help

It's amazing that you have "so called" friends that won't hang with you anymore. I also don't understand where all this bottom tier, top tier crap comes from. I assume you are just as good a person as the people you thought were your friends. So if you're in one sorority and they're in another one what makes them top and you bottom. Makes absolutely no sense to me but I'm a guy. Take the bid and enjoy that HUGE new house they are building.

Please just give it some time! Have you seen their plans for the new house? Will definitely be the one of the prettiest on the row!I know you are probably still exhausted from last week physically and emotionally! But you need to give the situation more time.You will be here 4 years and will have a house soon! Don't give up on them-they need you more than the other houses do! I have met some really nice girls in this house, please give it some time!

You just joined...give it some time. You will have the newest house on campus soon and have lots of new pledge sisters to meet. Be a part of building something great on the Ole Miss campus and don't worry about the stupid tier gossip.

What you do is roll up your sleeves put on some pants/skirt/dress and make it better so next years pledge class will have it a little better. Complaining won't help no one. You're in a Sorority and have sisters now. Go get that house built so by the time you graduate you will have left an imprint of yourself here for others to admire.

Here is some advice. Drop the friends because you have an entire new "house" full of sisters! Sisters who PICKED YOU to join them. Those friends aren't friends if they aren't speaking to you. ADpi is not a bottom tier anything. It is a brand new home to many awesome young ladies and you can be a part of making it great! There are over 160 new pledges in your class….lots of new sisters to hang out with! Give it a try!

Please give it a little time, for God's sake. You have been a member for THREE WHOLE DAYS! You are bound to ADPi for a full year. Trust this, you will NOT get a bid if you rush again in the Fall 2015. Ain't gonna happen. Once cut, always cut. Alpha Phi won't even offer a bid to someone who dropped her pledge. If you drop ADPi, then prepare to be completely out of Greek Life at Ole Miss. Not fun. YOU make ADPi what you want it to be.

You friends in other houses haven't just dropped you! I promise! Sunday was bid day, Monday was probably pledge meetings or pledge pinning. Tuesday many had their first swaps. They aren't ignoring you, they are busy adjusting to life after recruitment.

Give it a week or two! Trust me, most of my best friends are in other sororities. Yes, I love my sisters, but totally find time to hang with my friends in other houses!

You need to stick it out and work your butt off and enjoy ADP. You can take that sorority as far as you and your new pledge sisters will push it. Maybe there is a reason why you were picked to join ADP and that may be because it will give you a chance to shine and show others what a good leader you are.

What kind of people were you hanging out with? I'm in a top tier sorority and have many friends who went and love adpi. Yes, adpi is technically a bottom tier sorority here but they are by no means bad. Give them a chance. There are fun and sweet girls in adpi. Chances are you won't get a bid next year if you rush again.

I assume "drop" has a 4.0 in school since she's a mind reader and just "knows" this thread was started to heep praise on ADPi. Wonder what other talents she has???