I’m being rushed by so many houses

Don't worry about being able to make up your mind. You have very very little say in where you get invitations or a bid. Just accept the invitations that you receive and do whatever you can to enjoy the process. This year is going to be totally bizarre. Be happy wherever you land.

just bc girls are reaching out, doesn’t mean they want you. they’re just interested. you might look really good on paper, but meeting in person is something completely different. if you come into rush w this attitude, you are definitely going to get cut. all the pnms just need to accept that rush is going to look a lot different this year, and that might just be some people’s downfall.

anyway, deflate that big head of yours. while some actives are reaching out and campaigning to their chapters for you, others are saying “i just don’t think she’s a good fit” or badmouthing you. you just don’t get to see that side, though.

good luck during rush! hope we don’t have to talk during any rounds!!

to the OP, are you aware of the changes in contact before and during recruitment that were implemented this year due to CV19? OF COURSE you are being contacted on line by tons of actives. That is their literal J-O-B!

I am a legacy to two top houses and well known so I do think I will be the one choosing. There are lots of girls that say all the time that they “had their choice” of houses. I don’t know why it got people offended that there are PNMs that are going to be the ones cutting houses and not the other way around.

Actually I’m only a legacy at one of those. But funny how you think you can threaten me. I’m really not one that has to worry honey.

This has to be a troll. Someone trying to subtly frame a pnm?

hi honeyyy!! the only day that is definitely online is greek day. the following round is philanthropy (which cph is expecting to be in-person), where you get to go to 8 houses. since you know that you’ve got the top 6 in your pocket, you should have nothing to worry abt!!

rush is different for everyone - some girls have to worry abt which houses will cut them, while others have to worry abt which houses they want to cut. you never know until you get there, so it’s not a good look to act super confident before rush starts. i understand where you’re coming from, though! hope everything works out for you!

You’re not special. DDD and KKG are in everyone’s comments.

That PNM child is de-lusional. The sororities do all the choosing and releasing. And we talk to each other, so keep digging your hole deeper and deeper....and your shirt come Bid Day will say GDI.

I don’t go here but I recently found this page and damn the drama is entertaining, sweetheart, I may only be in a lower top/ upper mid chapter at my school and I may be from the north but damn girl you’re a piece of work. I hope you grow up between now and the start of rush, because if you walked in the door of my house at my school talked to me spewing that bs your ass is being dropped from my house and every other house. Get some manners and maturity