So we shouldn’t “trust the process” after all?🙄

I find that all the time, girls will seem to “chill” or “pretty” or what not for the org they are in. It’s probably that they chose an org for some other aspect. At the end of the day you can be cool and beautiful and all that jazz with or without being in greek life or in some specific org.

I feel like a lot of the pnm’s in the recent classes aren’t understanding how this works. I know of girls who have had both Gphi or phi sig and Dphi on the last day in recent years and went with the latter org. You wonder why? Cause they chose the org just as much as the org chose them. You go with who you clicked with and who you can see being your sisters for life. Just because a girl is “prettier” or “chiller” doesn’t mean she wasn’t meant to be in the org she got a bid from. If that was the case, you do realize they don’t have to accept the bid right? If they didn’t truly want it, they didn’t need to take the invitation. Don’t question their choices just because you’re not understanding Greek life is more than just looks.

Let’s put it this way! I went to highschool with some of the new freshmen girls that just enrolled in SJU and did recruitment! I know some dirt on these girls, and they still ended up in gphi! One of them was an outcast and did really messed up things at my school and was in the drama club department and caused SO MANY WEIRD PROBLEMS. I’m not trying to sound like a walking stereotype but you best believe that each one if these orgs has had a sister who was probably mentioned on “overheard”