dont make the same theta mistake i did

why do you feel this way??? I'm sorry things aren't going well for you

It's really not that bad I know a lot of decent girls in theta

You're not that wrong. Some girls get a really good experience out of this, some are socially shunned by their sisters. You could say all chapters have these problems, but there's definitely a "who's in and who's out" mentally in this group. Roommate was a Theta. She lasted 6 months. Her big stopped talking to her and she never made positions or committees, even though she always volunteered to help. I would advise with caution, but give it a chance. If the honeymoon phase of being a new member doesn't last, I'd drop.

have you tried getting to know a lot of the sisters because I know some new sisters that haven't gone to anything even chapter? Instead of complaining about problems on this stupid website, go to exec or MDC and talk to the committees about your problems. You get out what you put into it.

To "seriously" it's people like you that ruin the image of sororities and Greek life. Instead of sitting around and pouting about how unhappy you are, why don't you speak up and stand up for yourself. If you see a problem, fix it. Don't just go with tide and expect other people to make you happy. You're the only one who controls that. You get what you give. And if you give nothing to your organization you will get nothing in return. My best friend is a Theta and her passion for that organization is incredible. Maybe you should change your negative outlook on life and appreciate what you've been given. Stop tearing those down who are trying so hard to build that chapter up.

Honestly, even as someone who has not been involved for like a year and in that same position, "seriously" is a little too hyped. They made it clear they did not want me in their sisterhood. I was apart of leadership summits, on 5 committees at one point, and got nothing out of it. No positions and treated not so kindly. But what I'm saying is I think you should make this point more rationally, less angrily. Let me tell you, it's been easier for me to let go of these girls as easily as it has been for them to let go of me. There's more inspiring and empathetic people out there once you let go. Anyone who tells you what opinions you can express, not giving girls positions that they deserve out of merit, making girls go inactive on the basis of "mental health/concern" based on old info, or unfairly punishes/lets people off for the same "offense", is not worth your time. The girls who stop contacting you or won't even let you help with philanthropy you once you drop, go inactive, aren't either. I'm not mad, but I've seen all of this happen, it's shameful, so I hope an active sister reading this uses this as constructive criticism and changes this because privately going to exec/mdc doesn't help. Not everyone in the chapter is like this. A great deal of the leadership, though, yes. I'm not saying I totally disagree with what you said, but there is a better way. I hope you're okay though TLAM