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Did anyone else get completely dropped before pref?

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#11  by: Sad   
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All that wasted time and money for what? So all the girls that didn’t get cut can feel sorry for me.

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by: sameAug 23, 2019 2:23:56 PM

I know. I feel the same way. It's so demoralizing.

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by: AdviceAug 23, 2019 2:34:22 PM

Reach out to Greek Life and let them know you are interested in houses doing COB. Know that the next few days and first couple of weeks will be difficult to see girls in letters around campus, but things will get better. Try to be happy for the girls you met during the process and form friendships with them, since they may get inside info on if their house has COB and might keep you in mind if COB becomes available in the future. Keep your grades up and be social and nice to everyone you meet during your 1st semester, it could help you in the long run if you still have interest in greek life.

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by: AdviceAug 23, 2019 2:42:52 PM

One more thing, this in no way defines who you are or your self worth. Remember that, ok?

Things will get better. Your experience at uark is what you it.

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#12  by: what happened   
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I had AOPi and DG after round one then was down to AOPi and now nothing.

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by: Sending loveAug 23, 2019 2:55:58 PM

It is just a different year. Has nothing to do w you.
Pulling for you whatever you do. Really hoping COB starts this semester. Know it feels so bad. There were amazing pnms released.

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#13  by: lol   
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Recruitment numbers will continue to drop. This is life to the bored old women of Arkansas. What will they do?

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#14  by: ItHappenedToMe   
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I'm a senior this year, I went through fall rush my freshman year and got dropped completely. I was devastated/ heart broken. And had made plans to transfer at the end of my first semester. My advice, don't throw away your college experience because you didn't get into a house. Find some club or organization and get plugged in! Like really plugged in! Thats the only way you'll make it through because it does suck, I'm not gonna sugar coat it.

I was fortunate enough to be approached my sophomore year, spring semester about COB. So keep your eyes and ears open.
After this is all over, if you need someone reach out, I can post an email for an organization I'm a part of here on campus and we can get connected.
You'll make it though I promise!

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by: MeTooAug 23, 2019 10:27:55 PM

The same thing happened to me--and I went for it! It was one of the best decisions I could've made. Just wait it out, make friends from all over the place, and if Greek Life is really what you want, you'll be a part of it before you know it.

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