someone please help!

We look for so much more than gpa. That's just one factor! A 3.5 is great, but without all the other qualities, it's just grades.

A top tier girl will have good grades, she will have participated in more than one extra curricular event, she will have held at least one position of leadership. She will have pages of volunteer hours. She will be pretty, come from a good family, be poised, confident, and dressed perfectly. She will be talented. And most importantly she will be "that" girl that everybody wants to be friends with. She will have already networked her way into our hearts. The only exceptions would be if she was a huge legacy who's mom actually attended ole miss or is extremely active in her sorority. Physical beauty is also considered important. If you don't know a soul, you better catch our eye with your looks, because every bodies resumes will read the same. \n\n\n\n\n

As a member of a sorority, you will constantly be at your chapter house. Breakfast, lunch, dinner, pledge meetings, chapter meetings, bible studies, philanthropy activities, swaps, parties, you name it. Between classes you will be studying at the house, or campaigning for a sister running for an office or homecoming court. You will be on committees. You will hang out in the grove on football game days with your sisters! Your life will revolve around your sorority. Sorority life may not be for everyone, but those of us who are in sororities are obsessed with our sororities and our sisters.

We don't take membership selection lightly! It is very important that we invite only those girls we see as equals to be our sisters. Sometimes grades don't matter, sometime we don't care whether or not you triple lettered in high school while serving on student council and NHS. In the end, it all boils down to whether or not we want you to be our sister. A good personality, a pretty face, and great social skills will get you further than a stellar résumé. Our alumni pay attention to those things, so they are important, but many factors go into choosing sisters!

So I have a really good personality (not self proclaimed but people have told me it plenty of times) and I'm fairly funny and pretty sociable. Is this enough to win over the girls in the sorority if they don't already know me?

Oh wow! You're back! Do us all a favor and head back to Starksville!
Nobody likes a bitter bottom tier girl. Most girls, even the bottom tier, love their sororities and could care less what the others say, do, or think. Obviously you still hold grudges from bid day. Maybe you need wine night with your sisters to remind yourself why your sorority is great too! Then maybe you can quit picking on the rest of us.

I LOVE Regina George! She's sooooo pretty! Did you catch how she became a GREAT person by the end of the movie?

I think it safe to say that there are kind, fun, and great charactered girls in the top sororities too! The bottom tier does not hold the exclusive rights to them!

Oh my god! You're totally obsessed with me.