help???

Just no. If your gonna rush based on stupid stereotypes dont rush.

That describes most of the sororities. Go in with an open mind and pick the one you feel you fit in best with. Us telling you what you sound best for will probably turn out terrible. I know a guy who said I should be in Theta and I feel like I'm the complete opposite of theta. Basically just don't listen to what people tell you and choose what you feel right in.

You are the type of girl rushing that's exactly like every other girl that's rushing along side you. Each girl is "nice" and still "likes to party" but would "like the traditional values of a sorority (philanthropy, sisterhood)". With you're description you'd fit into every single sorority because that's the same values most sorority girls share. When you rush, it's more about personality and how you'd contribute to each sorority. Are you shy? Are you nerdy? Are you a leader? Are you outgoing? Each sorority will present many different girls and I promise you'll figure it out in the 5 days you rush. It's plenty of time.